Cage diving with great white sharks off the coast of South Africa, scaling Mount Kilimanjaro, winning the Nobel Peace Prize, or singing to a group of thousands in a packed out coliseum......
We all have lists of grandiose, phenomenal feats
that we wish to complete in our lifetimes. We want to be recognized,
appreciated, respected, admired, and possibly idolized or revered, but why do
we feel the need to be defined in terms of somewhat unattainable acts? Sure, in
pursuing these dreams, we could experience a sense of joy, but would this
actually bring us the desired sense of accomplishment or confidence we long
for?
I feel that it is vital that we first delve into
our inner selves and get to the root of any feelings of inadequacy, fear,
self-doubt, or possible self-hatred before we set our minds on achieving these
goals. It is a proven fact that the human race yearns for meaning in their
lives, a sense of purpose which may seem unattainable. Once we have dealt with the
roadblocks within ourselves which seem to waylay any attempt of our changing or
pursuing our dreams, we must also choose to refocus our effort towards others,
seeking out ways we can contribute to the fulfillment of our fellow man. I find
that when I re-route my thoughts onto what I can add to the lives of others, I
somehow walk away feeling restored within my soul. In giving away the things I
desire, I seem to receive those things in a way I couldn't have on my own. A
sense of accomplishment is birthed and the desire to perpetuate this feeling
emerges. I feel more connected to others in doing this and any feelings of
loneliness, sadness, or incompetency seem to dissipate.
It is truly better to give than to receive, and
in doing so, the payoff is experienced in a manner which not only brings joy to
others, but pours contentment, peace, and love into our inner selves. The
purpose in which our hearts have been yearning for is beckoning to us, and it
is in the form of selfless care of others.
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